A widow has responded to people telling her not to remarry but to focus on her children. 
 

The mum gave the reason she can’t take this advice and why she hopes to find love again soon. 
 

She wrote: ‘After I lost my husband, many advised me to just face my children. 

‘ “Men are not good. Men are not reliable. The next man will not take care of your children.” 

‘I am grateful for the concern, but I am curious – how did they know? 

‘My question is simple: After I face these children, who will face me in the next 15 years? 

‘Should I remain alone in the house? My boys will grow and start their own lives. Will you come and stay with me then? 

‘ I love my children, but I also have a life to live. 

‘I am sharing this for every widow who has heard this advice. What are your thoughts?’